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December 2024

APPROACH THIS CHRISTMAS WITH A CHILDLIKE HEART

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“For to us a child is born, to us a son is given; and the government shall be upon His shoulder, and His name shall be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace. Of the increase of His government and of peace there will be no end, on the throne of David and over His kingdom, to establish it and to uphold it with justice and with righteousness from this time forth and forevermore. The zeal of the LORD of hosts will do this.” (Isaiah 9:6-7)

“He was in the world, and the world was made through Him, yet the world did not know Him. He came to His own, and His own people did not receive Him. But to all who did receive Him, who believed in His name, He gave the right to become children of God, who were born, not of blood nor of the will of the flesh nor of the will of man, but of God.”(John 1:10-13)

“Let the children come to Me, and do not hinder them, for to such belongs the kingdom of God. Truly, I say to you, whoever does not receive the kingdom of God like a child shall not enter it.” (Luke 18:16b-17)

Today I bring you “good tidings of great joy”. (Luke 2:10) You do not have to approach this Christmas season cynically preoccupied with the stark contrast between the spirit of Christmas and the present spirit of our world.

You do not have to approach this Christmas with the debilitating stress of “too much to do” and “too much to buy”.

You do not have to approach this Christmas with an attitude jaded by incessant commercialism, the intrusiveness of cute but semi-pagan myths like elves and flying reindeer, or even the awareness we do not really know the day of the year when Jesus Christ was born.

You can, if you choose, approach this Christmas with a childlike heart.

Read the scriptures that begin this column. We were given a child by God so we can become children of God, but we will not truly receive the blessings of the child God gave to us until we begin to think, feel, and behave like the children of God we have become. (Say what?)

It is not enough for me to simply say I am a child of God. To think, feel, and behave like a child of God requires that I have a childlike attitude about my new and everlasting identity. I become, like every healthy child, someone who delights in my new life, eager to learn and do all the things I was previously unable to learn and do, and trustingly dependent on the ones who watch over me and love me beyond measure: my heavenly Father God; my eldest brother, Jesus Christ, the Savior King; and the Holy Spirit of the Lord, who conceived Jesus within Mary and now lives within me. 

When I approach Christmas with a childlike heart, Christmas becomes my personal celebration of my Savior King’s birthday. I take joy in my salvation! (Psalm 51:12)  

When I approach Christmas with a childlike heart, I take joy in the fact Jesus’ birthday is so special it is even celebrated by people who are not yet Christians. I take joy in seeing the preparations for His birthday stretch through the whole month of December. I take joy in hearing over and over again that God loves the world and that His desire is peace on earth. 

I take joy in the fact so many families come together for Christmas, despite being scattered the rest of the year, and in seeing how much love can flow as they share traditions, memories, and the new things happening in their lives.

I take joy in watching the happiness that comes from the thoughtful giving and receiving of gifts. I take joy in singing and listening to beautiful songs. I take joy in the lights and greenery that brighten up an otherwise cold and barren winter. I particularly take joy in watching children laugh and play because it reminds me how much my heavenly Father wants me to laugh and play. 

When I approach Christmas with a childlike heart, the blinders come off and I no longer tune out or take for granted the things I have “become used to.” I look at the Christ child in the manger, surrounded by the poor and the rich and the angelic, and I see the billions of children in there with Him. We will follow the Christ child from those most humble surroundings into a spectacular place of eternal glory. (Philippians 2:5-11; John 14:1-3)

My dear friends, “set your minds” to approach this Christmas with a childlike heart, and you will truly have a Merry Christmas! (Colossians 3:2) 

God bless you, and God bless our community.

LET’S TALK TRUTH IN LOVE

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… [S]peaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in every way into Him who is the head,vinto Christ, from whom the whole body, joined and held together by every joint with which it isvequipped, when each part is working properly, makes the body grow so that it builds itself up invlove. (Ephesians 4:15-16)

Grace, mercy, and peace will be with us, from God the Father and from Jesus Christ the Father’s Son, in truth and love. (2 John 1:3)

I have engaged in pastoral “prayer & counsel” ministry for over twenty-five years. The people I meet in this capacity primarily struggle with a combination of anxiety, depression, frustration, negativity, and/or poor self-image. For most, the origin of their struggles was a childhood spent in a home where anger, fear, and distrust were the daily norm.

What is true for a homelife can also be true for a culture or nation. Our television and social media screens have, for longer than we care to admit, incessantly poured out one-sided messages that provoke anger at what “the other side” is doing, fear at what will happen if “the other side” gains power, and distrust of anyone who does not agree with the person on the screen who is speaking. Since the average American spends seven hours per day looking at a screen, these messages of anger, fear, and distrust are our daily norm.

Polls suggest 70-75% of Americans believe our nation has been on the wrong track.
While most people relate this to issues of the economy, immigration, and abortion, we must also remember how our general mood toward life impacts how we look at every issue. Life in an atmosphere of anger, fear, and distrust will hardly ever produce happiness, peace, or optimism.

As is always the case, God offers a better way – the way of Jesus – that combines truth and agape love. (John 14:6; 1 John 4:10) Our Father and Jesus send us grace, mercy, and peace in a package of truth and agape love. (2 John 1:3) Paul tells us that we grow up from childishness into knowledge of and intimacy with Jesus as we speak the truth in love. (Ephesians 4:13-16)

The Bible will not allow us to separate these life-essential ingredients of truth and love. God is love. (1 John 4:8, 16) He is also the God of truth. (Isaiah 65:16) God so loved us that He sent Jesus to save us. (John 3:16) Jesus is the truth. (14:6) Our faith in Jesus allows us to know the truth that sets us free. (John 8:30-32) Our faith works through love. (Galatians 5:6)

Jesus declares the Father and He are one. (John 10:30) Since Father God is love and Jesus is the truth, we can even argue that God’s love and God’s truth are “one”. And while that may seem a stretch, the Bible very clearly states that you cannot have one without the other.

1 Corinthians 13:2 says we can have incredible amounts of truth, but if we do not have agape love, we are nothing. Four verses later, 1 Corinthians 13:6 says agape love does not rejoice in wrongdoing, but rejoices in the truth. Truth without God’s love is not God’s truth, and love without God’s truth is not God’s love.

We are emerging from an election campaign where a little more than half of our nation wanted former President Trump to be President again, and a little less than half did not. Both God’s Word and our nation’s Constitution tell us to honor our election outcomes, and God urges all Christians on both “sides” to pray for all our elected governmental leaders. (1 Timothy 2:1-2; Romans 13:1-7; 1 Peter 2:13-17) I hope all of us will do so.

My greater concern, however, is whether we can do anything to change this national
atmosphere of anger, fear, and distrust. Jeremiah asked whether a leopard could change its spots. (Jeremiah 13:23) But Christians are not leopards. We are new creations in Christ, and scripture tells us repeatedly to change and live as who we really are, not as who we once were. (2 Corinthians 5:17; Ephesians 4:20-32; Colossians 3:1-17; Galatians 5:13-25; 2 Peter 1:2-11) All of these wonderful scriptures describe humble lives of truth and love: treating other people the way we wish to be treated. (Matthew 7:12) If enough of us do that, the atmosphere can change.

As a small part of this effort, my daughter Jes Williams and I launched a new podcast on November 1 called Let’s Talk: Truth in Love. It is available on YouTube, Spotify, Apple, and through a link on our ministry website (Please pardon the plug). Our goal, just like my goal with these columns, is that we can encourage a better way to live and live together.

God bless you, and God bless our community.